Internet Dating

> When you are chatting on the Internet do not give out personal details such as phone number, name, address or a personal description

> It is unwise to arrange dates over the internet, and to be avoided.

> But If you decide to make a date on the telephone, never give personal details such as your address or surname. It is possible to trace an address from a telephone number, so again be very guarded even about giving out your telephone number.

> Do not keep the date secret. If the person you have arranged to meet is untrustworthy, you are playing into his hands.

> Always arrange to meet in a busy public place where you will be able to get away easily

> Take a friend along to meet your date. Work out a pre-arranged signal with your friend to indicate if you would prefer your friend not to leave you. It might be better if the friend didn’t leave at all.

> Tell someone where you are going, who with (including name, phone number and address) and when you’ll be back.

> Initially, DON’T go home with your date, DON’T invite them back to your home or ACCEPT a lift.

> Pay attention to your instincts. If you feel uneasy about someone, there may be a reason. If you do feel uncomfortable for any reason, don’t tell yourself you’re being silly. If you don’t feel comfortable with them, don’t give them personal details about yourself and don’t arrange a second date.

> It is very easy to feel embarassed about being suspicious. DON’T BE. If the date is trustworthy and likes you, he will understand your dilemma.

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